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Fundaah
#21 Posted : Tuesday, June 30, 2009 1:14:00 PM
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Mkomeshe......Do what a woman has got to do to keep her man......can call the X and stop her from snooping in your marriage...Matusi kidogo may do


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smano
#22 Posted : Tuesday, June 30, 2009 1:20:00 PM
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I have seen what I'm missing...disguised name on cellphone? hapo ninanusa panya! Even I have not disguised my ex's number,am not married and neither is she,we're pals even though my girl is not particularly pleased that we talk,but I don't keep it from her even though I minimize my contact with ex as much as possible,a bit difficult though coz we're part of a huge campus crowd where we hooked up. Anyway,that aside,how did you learn that the ex's name is disguised in his phone,pardon my curiosity smile

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Fundaah
#23 Posted : Tuesday, June 30, 2009 1:25:00 PM
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I think luisa means that ... the name of the X in the phone book is saved as Kamau instead of Lucy

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Wini the pooh
#24 Posted : Tuesday, June 30, 2009 1:35:00 PM
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The case of the X is always as dangerous as it sounds...........simply said.......
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candy
#25 Posted : Tuesday, June 30, 2009 1:57:00 PM
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the fact that she was there before you doesnt give her/him the right to do things behind your back. why didn't he marry her in the first place? Fight for your man gal.....i feel you.

Do not judge a book by its cover.
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Tebes
#26 Posted : Tuesday, June 30, 2009 2:19:00 PM
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These are genuine concerns affecting married couples. If her name is saved as John or other male names then there is alot he is hiding. Talk to the lady and express your sincere feelings about their continued relationship whether investmentwise or otherwise. Scare the nerves off her blood and you could also threaten to to disclose to her husy if at all they donot stop the same. I am sure she wont like the same thing to happen to her. Let her see the sense if at all she has any. You have a duty to jelously guard your family.

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adept
#27 Posted : Tuesday, June 30, 2009 3:07:00 PM
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Lucy saved as Kamau? Hapa ninaona X-files kabisa.

However there is another angle to all this: why is it that ladies usually have a problem when the man communicates with the ex (or even other ladies in general) more than men are concerned when the tables are reversed?

Ladies tend to be more insecure about their man's relationships with persons of the opposite sex.

That has been my own observation. But I stand corrected.

This is a general comment @Luisa and I am not necessarily referring to your situation.
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Karimakeru
#28 Posted : Tuesday, June 30, 2009 3:24:00 PM
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Even if that was the only business partner in the planet,just have him stop it . Sit him down for a serious discussion and make it absolutely clear that you are uncormfortable about it and that it must stop,period. If he doesn't heed you,it's time you started working on a plan B.
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Kusadikika
#29 Posted : Tuesday, June 30, 2009 8:38:00 PM
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Now these are problems women bring upon themselves. Snooping around and being suspicious. Does the man sleep away from home every night? Has he abdicated any of his responsibilities as husband and father? Has he caused you physical harm? Has he been disrespectful to you? Is he unaware or ignorant about the use of the condom? If all these are in the negative stop digging baby unless you just love dirt and cant live without a quarrel!!! A man is either happily married or faithful. In a majority of men these two are mutually exclusive. Live and let live.

Weusi wa nywele za mshtakiwa zaonyesha ujinga alio nao
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Informer
#30 Posted : Wednesday, July 01, 2009 3:49:00 AM
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As Kusadikika as put it,if you turn every stone you encounter you will surely find a snake.

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whatever is done in the dark will always come to the light and find its way to bite u in the ass (SO DO THE RIGHT THING EVEN WHEN NO-ONE IS WATCHING)
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