This is a timebomb waiting to explode. This is the kind of story which ends when the father wipes out the whole family then himself then we wonder what could have driven him to such an extreme action

am with you on this one. Just take responsibility of the baby if indeed she is. and as many have said, tumia cd if you must land!!!

This is the mistake some guys make-you go ahead and have intimacy with a chic not taking time to reflect on "what if she conceives?".

Its so selfish that once you've had your moment of fun,you now want t dump her.

My advice would be to the lady and not you,run away from this man-

And now it seems the biggest concern for guys when they download the white stuff ni pregnancy. Na kamdudu. I hope both of u mlikuwa mumepimwa

thanks @all for the balanced opinions.

this was not a one night stand. No. it was a relationship that had existed for two and a half years. a relationship in which there is so much trust and love. one in which she would tell me her safe days and unsafe days. And yes we had gone to a VCT.

however, the relationship hit a plateau. Love faded a bit, and a break up was almost imminent. it was not seriously considered, but there was a communication break down. the kind you feel fed up with one another and want a break. After confiding to a few close friends on the lukewarm nature of the relationship, she suddenly came up with this stori. WHY NOW.

@majay and selah, climb down your high horses. there is always a moment of weakness once in a while. when it is time for morning glory and you dont have any Cds.

it is not like men have all the fun. No. No. No. women enjoy too. and when she insists that she is on her safe days, you got to trust that she has counted them right.

thanks to @danas, t and Mblack.


Until I learn the truth, am not guilty.