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KenyanLyrics
#11 Posted : Monday, July 11, 2011 12:54:17 PM
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As some have said before me, that man is in a very small grace period.
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Ms Mkenya
#12 Posted : Monday, July 11, 2011 1:08:06 PM
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Let me just say you probably have heard so much bad news until good news is foreign (hence unbelievable).


....above all, to stand.
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Kaigangio
#13 Posted : Monday, July 11, 2011 1:21:32 PM
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...like segemia says it is too early for the lady to celebrate the "successful 3 year old marriage"....

i was wondering out of 100 marriages in kenya today, how many survive their first 5 years? of the failed ones, what is the root cause?

...besides, the presence of a safe alone does not signify that there is money inside...
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Intelligentsia
#14 Posted : Monday, July 11, 2011 1:25:05 PM
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Ms Mkenya wrote:
Why is it so hard to appreciate or believe good news? Are you guys suggesting that the situation described is completely impossible?


Kindly identify any 3 women you know who are totally satisfied with their hubbies/ everything? Shame on you

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Inuendo
#15 Posted : Monday, July 11, 2011 1:54:40 PM
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Ms Mkenya wrote:
Let me just say you probably have heard so much bad news until good news is foreign (hence unbelievable).





In my opinion this situation is impossible, i can guarantee that when finances go south so does the love.
Relationships are conceived on the notion that each party will be dependent on the other. Part of these needs are security and comfort among others. When one of the spouses feels that the other is not meeting his/her expected share of responsibilities there will be conflict. So no matter how much you may love someone, you primarily do so because your needs are being met. I stand to be corrected.

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mukiha
#16 Posted : Monday, July 11, 2011 2:08:06 PM
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segemia wrote:
From experience it is still too early to make a judgement on your marriage before five to seven years have elapsed. That is when the real matrimonial stresses begin. I stand to be corrected.


Have some faith. You remind me of the dentist who gave me 3 months for my tooth to start aching again, after which I would go back and plead with him to remove it... that was 22 years ago and the said tooth is still in my mouth!

If your marriage (or your friend's or relative's) is messed up by lack of money, don't assume that no couple can overcome that huddle.
Nothing is real unless it can be named; nothing has value unless it can be sold; money is worthless unless you spend it.
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2012
#17 Posted : Monday, July 11, 2011 2:14:46 PM
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mwenza wrote:
segemia wrote:
Ms Mkenya wrote:
Why is it so hard to appreciate or believe good news? Are you guys suggesting that the situation described is completely impossible? Come on! Have some faith in some good news! May God continue to bless their marriage!


From experience it is still too early to make a judgement on your marriage before five to seven years have elapsed. That is when the real matrimonial stresses begin. I stand to be corrected.



The rubber meets the road when child no. 2 and 3 lands.


Have you considered that these challenges could probably make them stronger? People are different, there are people who get into marriage to please the society, others because they are of age and it's a rite of passage, achievement, children and then there are the ones who do it for the right reason.
Did you hear of this woman who made it her daily duty to watch on the neighbor's dramas and fights and making prediction to her husband and friends on the 'ending marriage'? Her's ended and the other one didn't.

BBI will solve it :)
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segemia
#18 Posted : Monday, July 11, 2011 2:20:34 PM
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mukiha wrote:
segemia wrote:
From experience it is still too early to make a judgement on your marriage before five to seven years have elapsed. That is when the real matrimonial stresses begin. I stand to be corrected.


Have some faith. You remind me of the dentist who gave me 3 months for my tooth to start aching again, after which I would go back and plead with him to remove it... that was 22 years ago and the said tooth is still in my mouth!

If your marriage (or your friend's or relative's) is messed up by lack of money, don't assume that no couple can overcome that huddle.


I hope you will wish to remember one thing, that a woman has no time or place for a man who cannot provide for his family, at least not with the current generation.

Believe it or not a large number of failed marriages is centred around finances. It is a fact that cannot be suppressed.
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hoodrat
#19 Posted : Monday, July 11, 2011 2:28:28 PM
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KenyanLyrics wrote:
As some have said before me, that man is in a very small grace period.

Agreed!The less finacially stable a man is the more obvious his flaws will start appearing over time!
Apparently there is nothing that cannot happen today!
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Obi 1 Kanobi
#20 Posted : Monday, July 11, 2011 2:54:07 PM
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Really impressed with the lady, as for the guy, there comes a time when he needs to consider any job to hold on to the lady, for crying out loud, enda mjengo, marigiti etc, after all he only needs to earn Sh 300 a day to double their income.
"The purpose of bureaucracy is to compensate for incompetence and lack of discipline." James Collins
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