Hello,
I am 33 years old and married with two children. We got married when I was about to have the second child. My husband used to live with his sister before that because he didn’t have a job.
My heartache is that I recently decided to rummage through his phone — something I had never done before — only to find a love message to his sister’s house-help.
He first denied that the message was from him, but came clean after I cornered him. He confessed that he had been sleeping with the house-help for two years, when our first child was a few months old.
His reasons for doing so are so petty that I still do not understand why he decided to venture outside the marital bed.
I
was so angry with him that I beat him thoroughly. As I clobbered him, he didn’t even attempt to defend or shield himself from the blows, but took it all in, all the time saying he was sorry for his actions and promising that he would never do it again.He says the relationship with the house-help had nothing to do with love, but just a convenience to relieve himself sexually.
My heart pains me and I pray a lot, especially when I think about it. However, what pains me most is that he would still be doing it had I not busted him. What should I do to ease all this anguish?
Edith.
http://www.nation.co.ke/...8/-/xr37e0z/-/index.htmlIt is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt...
-Mark Twain