what i think is most men whether they pre-occupy themselves with a wife, nagging wife, 20 years younger wife, girlfriend, sex friend or mistress.. have a way of seperate the sex from their work.. apart from a few...
i had this boss who shagged every chick that crossed his path.. including the cleaners... but he never treated them any different.. at the end of the day it was just sex... may be he shelled chums at the bed... but never a formal salary increment...