Ooooh sorry. I now understand why you were questioning my post. But let's assume the deletion was accidental.

@Burning Spear

I am not a moderator. If I were, I would have told you the reason for the deletion. I only felt sorry for you especially because you had questioned my posts. If you read my posts, you will surely know I am not from wazua.

If I may ask, do you honestly, feel you had provided a honest advice to this young girl? Did you take her posting seriously? Were you wishing her the best? If not, there you have the answer to the reason your post was deleted.

If your answer to the above question is yes, the deletion must be accidental and may be, wazua admin, having noted how invaluable your post was, will just reinstate it.

@tassia, on the contrary, i think you will not get as much genuine a response from many kenyan sites as you would get from Wazua. Of course i do not deny you will get a few jokers but that's the minority... In any case, one does not have to take all the advise given here.... you take out what is applicable for you but you get very different perspectives from other members here too that would juggle your mind.... Plus, people here will tell you the blunt truth that your "friends" may not tell you because it is not "politically correct"... you know.

@all,first of all,i would like to once again thank you all for ur contributions.
There ar those that have helped me confirm my instinct and so appreciate,i do not owe anyone an apology for turning them down since they have proved to me that something is a miss.If a man cannot contol himself b4 marrying a woman then what will make him be able to do so once married.My 6th sense told me that therez something wrong with the guy and i would obey it,whenever i disobey my 6th sence,things always go wrong.

For those who things am desperate,its still fine coz that ya opinion and i will obey them.I will call it waste of emotion if i respond to them in a bad way.

For those who things that i am one with the problem so i need to have sex to solve them,i say sorry,this is just me and i will do exactly what i think is right to do with my body.You also have urs and you can go ahead to have any other business that makes you happy,and so you will not advise me to have sex to be able to determine whether one is a husband material or not.

@Tassia,thank you very much and please not that ur points are taken home positively.

@Mukiha,i repond to ur post coz i know ur one of the very sober pple i have ever met in this forum;

Ur point number 1&2 have always distubed my heart so much and that why i decided to share my feeling.I once asked my so called friend to meet the guy to find if this jamaa is mentaly upright but thank God,i dont need the result coz its too late.

For ur point no.3,just reread my post,am not in a hurry.God has given me the grace to keep on with life peacefully without someone by my side.But bcoz sometimes knowing the will have God is difficult,i have got an open mind,if He deems fit for me to get a husband,and pliz note;not a perfect being but someone who is not just looking for a sex object like the case at hand,then well and good.

ha le lu yaah!