@jjred, If i were you, i would seek to know more about him from the said mutual friend. If need be, meet him but please do not go with the child. I am with @Wendz on that one.
However, i would personally beware of any guy who is sleeping with me (in his head) and we haven't met!! I will not meet such a man. And i would tell him in advance so he doesn't waste his time and money meeting me.
All the best girl, do let us know how it went!
@Salesman, u r now going too far.
....above all, to stand.