@all,thanks for your opinion,i take them positively.
For those who think am desperate,sorry....i cld not be having a second thought 4this guy,but for you info,i will keep absatining till the day i will meet smone of a husband material ,however long it will take.If God had purposed that i will marry one day,then i bless him,but if its not his will....i will still bless him.
The good book tell us to guard our heart with all dilligence coz out of it comes issues of life.I will do what is possible to make sure that ma heart is guarded very well.