jjred wrote:Thanks mlefu,you have talked like a milli men.I had never thought of going with my baby but i think it makes sense.I was thinking of an open place like uhuru park where pple are many and all we can do is just talk ,nothing more ,nothing less
Are you out of your mind? Where are you taking the kid? This is a bloody stranger and you drag your kid along? if push comes to shove, where will that kid be? If you cant stand on your word and say no, then something is definitely not right.. then dont show up for the date at all! No man can funga you if you do not want... sort out your relationships completely away from your child's face... Only introduce your kid to the man you are trully trully sure that you have made progress and you intend to take it to the next level! If you will be introducing the kid to every mpita njia, what sort of a kid are you bringing up, and God forbid it is a gal! She will never differentiate who is who in all that circus... or will you be explaining to her every time you part ways with them and it does not work out?
Only a man who is worth your time should be introduced to your child... and you should make it known to them that meeting your kid is basically close to introducing them to your mother! If you cant take the whole crop you meet on the streets of Nairobi to your mother, why take them to your kid?
What happens to children, they quickly adopt your "friends" as theirs. when you fall in love with someone, they will create their own "relationship" with the person as their "friend" and will go through a "break-up" of their own when you break-up with the person... why do you want to subject your kid to such when you aren't even sure you will see the dude for another date?
And i pray to God it is not someone playing around with your head/emotions...