coast women are different from nairobi women in a way

By the way, is there any Wazuan in the house with a kid that looks a bit out of place when compared to everyone else?
I know of one family where everyone is yellow yellow except for the first born, who is dark black. Another family I know, all four kids bear absolutely no resemblance to each other. How do the fathers cope with the suspicion?

Sounds very familiar at the Hague

hahahahahaha... that's so mean @Carygoh... hahahaha... but had to laugh!!

But seriously, if a lady does not want to get married (or lets say, cant get married for whatever reason), wants to have a baby, why should she go for an ugly stupid guy unless she is ugly and stupid too? Would it make sense? Ugly and intelligent is acceptable, handsome and stupid is NOT acceptable unless the alternative is ugly AND stupid. Now, ugly AND stupid?????? eeeeh, no words! Well,sorry, just thinking aloud!

@2012, and make sure MRS does not get to know because if all the kids are yours, and she gets to know you were questioning her morals, then it might have worse implications than you intended.

No need for this. Take a clean comb. Volunteer to comb your kid(s) hair. Get a few strands and put in a small paper bag. Off you go for a DNA test!!! Absolutely no sample required from the mother, though if you can get a sample [hair strand for example], you will be charged less - in Kenya. You can always take the kids to splash after you are sure they are yours!

As DNA testing becomes cheaper, I can see many families breaking pap! Personally, there would be no discussions if it turns out I was played. Don't get me wrong. I would have no problem bring up a kid fathered by somebody else and treating him/her as my own if the lady was honest from the onset - I see nothing wrong with a man getting married to a lady with kid(s) from a previous relationship and vice versa for example. But raising kids thinking they are yours kumbe they belong to someone else - and by design! - that would be too much to swallow for a majority of the men I know.