My heart goes out to those children and especialy to the girl!!! What hasn't she seen in her few years?
This should teach us that whenever we drop our children off to a party, we MUST know who is at the party, know which adult is in charge and decide if you agree with what is going on or not.....
These days i do not just drop off my children to a classmate's birthday bash. I have to know whose house it is and if i don't agree with what they do, i either stay on and watch over the children or get a better plot for them and 'pass by' the bash at some point when it is clear we have little time to spend

I know i will need a new tactic when they are in their pre-teen & teen years but for now, i am being quite intentional in knowing where they go.. I have also found that linking up with like minded parents being very helpful.
@Guka & Wendz, na wale wengine wa NYS, how did you manage this? These days there is serious madness going on in people's homes! I was once told of a home where the parents smoked weed openly (and not like the wazua one, real weed..)
....above all, to stand.