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Abby
#11 Posted : Monday, April 11, 2011 2:06:27 PM
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Very good thoughts indeed.

I guess the matter here was the attitude of some women who think that they can bring up a wholesome child alone; we have some with such an attitude - and try to trash men.

Else, the points are well said.

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famooz
#12 Posted : Monday, April 11, 2011 2:45:48 PM
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Interesting thread.

I am talking more about the ladies who claim"i do not want a man in my life,just kid". But truth of the matter is,they have looked for a the elusive Tall dark and handome partner,the biological clock has become like vuvuzela after which they have decided to have a kid. After that you will see them either with different guys or they will hook up with one guy ( almost always a married guy or someone who is already in a relationship ) and that will be her 'boyfriend' .........pathetic.
dossy7
#13 Posted : Monday, April 11, 2011 2:53:07 PM
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Very interactive
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Wendz
#14 Posted : Monday, April 11, 2011 3:00:22 PM
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famooz wrote:
Interesting thread.

I am talking more about the ladies who claim"i do not want a man in my life,just kid". But truth of the matter is,they have looked for a the elusive Tall dark and handome partner,the biological clock has become like vuvuzela after which they have decided to have a kid. After that you will see them either with different guys or they will hook up with one guy ( almost always a married guy or someone who is already in a relationship ) and that will be her 'boyfriend' .........pathetic.


@famooz, there is another crop that doesn't want any kids altogether... There is a one time neighbour of mine, in mid thirties now, she said from when she was in her late 20s that she did not want to have a kid and dint want a commitment. That kids do not have any space in her life.... And she seems to have lived it so far... don't ask me how.... i just cant understand.
mukiha
#15 Posted : Monday, April 11, 2011 3:07:15 PM
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dossy7 wrote:
Hello Wazuans
Watching KTN yesternyt i was shocked to see that most women preferred single parenthood.What happened to the old fashion family involving both parents?surely times have changed.
What is ur take would u raise ur kid alone if u could have both partners present?

TV news is not a proper research tool.... you cannot use it to conclude that "most women prefer single parenthood"
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famooz
#16 Posted : Monday, April 11, 2011 3:09:55 PM
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@famooz, there is another crop that doesn't want any kids altogether... There is a one time neighbour of mine, in mid thirties now, she said from when she was in her late 20s that she did not want to have a kid and dint want a commitment. That kids do not have any space in her life.... And she seems to have lived it so far... don't ask me how.... i just cant understand.]
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@ Wendz,i am tempted to ask you if she just wants bombing and landing bila kids?smile
dossy7
#17 Posted : Monday, April 11, 2011 3:19:59 PM
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mukiha wrote:
dossy7 wrote:
Hello Wazuans
Watching KTN yesternyt i was shocked to see that most women preferred single parenthood.What happened to the old fashion family involving both parents?surely times have changed.
What is ur take would u raise ur kid alone if u could have both partners present?

TV news is not a proper research tool.... you cannot use it to conclude that "most women prefer single parenthood"


@Mukiha I do agree but even just listening at the comments being read u get a general feeling that something ain't right
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Burning Spear
#18 Posted : Monday, April 11, 2011 3:32:53 PM
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Wendz wrote:
famooz wrote:
Interesting thread.

I am talking more about the ladies who claim"i do not want a man in my life,just kid". But truth of the matter is,they have looked for a the elusive Tall dark and handome partner,the biological clock has become like vuvuzela after which they have decided to have a kid. After that you will see them either with different guys or they will hook up with one guy ( almost always a married guy or someone who is already in a relationship ) and that will be her 'boyfriend' .........pathetic.


@famooz, there is another crop that doesn't want any kids altogether... There is a one time neighbour of mine, in mid thirties now, she said from when she was in her late 20s that she did not want to have a kid and dint want a commitment. That kids do not have any space in her life.... And she seems to have lived it so far... don't ask me how.... i just cant understand.



@Wendz,pschologically,that lady could be unmarriageable xter.It has nothing to do with wanting a kid or husband.
Ngoja afike 40-42 and she will hang out with 25yr old gal friends after her age mates decides to settle while educating kids in form one.
She will cry alone.

Not wanting kids or husbands is insincere claim that unmarriageable ladies use to fill their ego.
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Mtublack
#19 Posted : Monday, April 11, 2011 4:33:57 PM
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I respect people who are courageous enough to say parenthood is not for them whatever their reasons are instead of bring kids in this world and expecting others to bring up your kids

parenthood is a live time calling and there is a lot of satisafaction from it but lets be honest its hardwork and selfsacrifice if you are not ready dont bring in kids in this world, its not only unfair to them but also to the people whom you are going to burden them with
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Wendz
#20 Posted : Monday, April 11, 2011 5:19:30 PM
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Mtublack wrote:
I respect people who are courageous enough to say parenthood is not for them whatever their reasons are instead of bring kids in this world and expecting others to bring up your kids

parenthood is a live time calling and there is a lot of satisafaction from it but lets be honest its hardwork and selfsacrifice if you are not ready dont bring in kids in this world, its not only unfair to them but also to the people whom you are going to burden them with


mmmmh... different way of thinking... never looked at it like that... makes sense!
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