Two years ago we were in a relationship with this guy called mr.X. Then as we were preparing for our wedding realized that the guy was unfaithful to me. I found him two times with his ex-girl friend in his rooms. Since i did not want to cause any drama returned his wedding ring and told him to marry a lady of his choice.

He was frank enough and told me that he will not marry the lady i found him with who was from western but will marry one from eastern.

This one proved that he had a number of ladies in his life which he didn’t deny but pretended that it’s the ladies who are chasing after him.

At this point, i just thank the Almighty for having revealed this character at the right time. Though i was hurt very much, i decided to move on.

Unfortunately, a baby was conceived during the time we were together and he told me to abort decided to carry the baby to terms but 8 months down the line he called to find out whether i aborted now have a wonderful baby girl and decided never to bother him with anything since he promised that he will never support the baby.

He works in Sudan but whenever he comes back to Kenya, he bothers me so much and causes a lot of drama. What do i do with such a person? All i need is peace, burying my past and moving on but when he resurrect the whole issue, he takes me back to Misiri

My, my, my. Aren't you in deep s**t!

I think you encourage his 'non-sense'.Iko sida.

'when he resurrect the whole issue, he takes me back to Misiri'
shows you give him ample time to resurrect it


Si you just tell him the next time you see him near you you will call 112 or 999.

And if he does come near you you do exactly that?

As long as you have his kid Misri lazima uende I dont think our courts issues restraining orders maybe lawyers in wazua may give us more light on this.

Since you are not legally married I dont see why you should not move on with your life Get a good jamaa and move on MAKELELE YA CHURA HAYAZUII NGOMBE KUNYWA MAJI.

If every time he calls you answer the phone and entertain his discussions, this could be why he keeps disturbing you. Block all communications to reduce chances of creating false hopes.