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KADUSI
#11 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 2:59:52 PM
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@Abby,supporting the late brothers boys is not an issue.u r looking for excuse.Imagine u die like today,do u expect ur daughter to be taken care of??

Just be frank and tell us its the lady whom u dont want around.
famooz
#12 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 3:05:23 PM
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it seem mko na issues that only the 2 of you can solve. For example,how can your partner/your friends partner bring in other kids without consultation- maybe you need to go back to basics such a communication before deciding if you want to be pamoja........
KulaRaha
#13 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 3:12:41 PM
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You're complaining about a woman's relatives, what about her stupid friends? Especially those losers who can't hold a relationship and are found chasing all kinds of men everywhere, yet they give her advise on how she should handle you?
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bwenyenye
#14 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 3:16:42 PM
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Me thinks you is a 'Yes man!!! Why else would you stay on to someone you do not like...
I Think Therefore I Am
Robinhood
#15 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 3:42:40 PM
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Abby, Sorry I have too many questions. You also say the lady is 'mature'. Are you 'mature' too?
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
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#16 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 3:43:02 PM
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He can support his kid from a distant. That mama is trouble toka kijiko!

BBI will solve it
:)
QD
#17 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 4:07:51 PM
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@Abby where are you to answer all these questions? or you have taken to the hills.
The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts while the stupid ones are full of confidence
sanity
#18 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 4:26:39 PM
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Burning Spear wrote:
@Abby,

We sympathize that you have that kind of problem.Just discuss it with your wife and tell her you do not want intruders into your marriage.
Its sad that you may not have the best of your time to enjoy yourselves when your wife invites the whole clan to your house.Just tell her what you feel and see how she reacts.


You are crazy spear!!Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly
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Katibampya
#19 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 4:27:42 PM
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@ Abby Umeenda wapi? you ask for advice then u disappear? ebu kuwa serious kidogo!!!
Abby
#20 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 5:05:50 PM
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Hi,

Sorry I was off air. But thanks for your observations.

By the way, I was just mentioning a matter that one of my friends has - he is in no position to bring the matter here.

Now, do you mean to say that one boy can not live with another relative? This is the point my friend had: and you know what he was told? That the two boys can not live separate.

If a lady can say that and they are not married, what about when they are married!!

That is why I was of the opinion that the lady was broadcasting a decision: she had decided between her late brother's boys and my friend!

Hard world. Frankly, two boys about 6 to 10 years, you bring them up till they achieve independence and then they can turn against you - this is a hard world!
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