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Abby
#1 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 7:27:40 AM
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Hi Gentlemen,

Good morning!

I would appreciate some comments on women and their relatives.

There is this friend of mine who has a child/daughter with a mature, working lady (the two are not married and live separately).

The man was not very comfortable with having the lady as his wife, but because of the daughter, he was entertaining the idea of living with the lady.

Now, to the man's surprise, the lady takes two young boys (her late brother's children). The man could not understand this .... he says he could be Ok if the lady took just one boy, but two boys ---- he feels as if the lady is deciding between the two boys and him!

Any thoughts gentlemen?

By the way, the man was never really comfortable with living with the lady in the first place. According to him, the lady needs a kind of Yes-Type-Man. For a type of man who would want to have his way on some issues, there would be trouble in the House.

I guess I now understand why rich men (Americans) have such high divorce rates....
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Burning Spear
#2 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 8:32:55 AM
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@Abby,

We sympathize that you have that kind of problem.Just discuss it with your wife and tell her you do not want intruders into your marriage.
Its sad that you may not have the best of your time to enjoy yourselves when your wife invites the whole clan to your house.Just tell her what you feel and see how she reacts.
"You're not supposed to be so blind with patriotism that you can't face reality. Wrong is wrong, no matter who says it". Malcolm X
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YesuWangu
#3 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 8:38:10 AM
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Yeah, I feel for you Abby. It does not feel good even for a minute having the desire to do good yet obstacles are in the way preventing you.

Just find another way of taking care of daughter. There is always another way.
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Robinhood
#4 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 12:27:21 PM
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@All, its not abby here, it's a 'friend' Hahaha
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
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McReggae
#5 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 12:42:47 PM
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Robinhood wrote:
@All, its not abby here, it's a 'friend' Hahaha


...hapa watu wako macho brazza, umeona vile kamepotea?????
..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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selah
#6 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 12:52:40 PM
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its not like you are married or something....I think if you cant stand the heat you can just walk out...The lady is working and this is a relationship of convenience.

splitting two brothers is not right if she has the means to take care of the two 'intruders' as well as ur daughter I dont see anything wrong with it.
'......to the acknowledgment of the mystery of God, and of the Father, and of Christ; 3 In whom are hid all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.' Colossians 2:2-3
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For Sport
#7 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 1:05:17 PM
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Burning Spear wrote:
@Abby,

We sympathize that you have that kind of problem.Just discuss it with your wife and tell her you do not want intruders into your marriage.
Its sad that you may not have the best of your time to enjoy yourselves when your wife invites the whole clan to your house.Just tell her what you feel and see how she reacts.


Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly
give a brother a break
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Robinhood
#8 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 2:03:01 PM
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@Abby, did you say the lady is an amazonian? I feel for you bro. Time to take cover if you ask me. These are not decisions one can take alone in a marriage and if they do, it shows the regard one has for the spouse.
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
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selah
#9 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 2:23:59 PM
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Location: in kenya
IS THIS A MARRIAGE OR A 'COME WE STAY'?
'......to the acknowledgment of the mystery of God, and of the Father, and of Christ; 3 In whom are hid all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.' Colossians 2:2-3
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Kirika
#10 Posted : Tuesday, March 22, 2011 2:38:22 PM
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Joined: 1/26/2011
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Location: Nairobi

Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly Laughing out loudly

Damn ! Pple are quick on their feet !

Someone's bubble got a rude prick !
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