@famooz, you are a lady, you know how we are when it comes to impulse buying... like the nice bag you saw at the mall.... the nice shoes, the evening you indulged with your galfriends even when you knew you were tight on cash and brushed it off as "ah, its only once in a while", the manicure and pedicure you have been dying for and he thinks its a waste of money and the occasional bailing mum/my sister out.... now, imagine having to go report and explain each and everything? And not once, every other week or month depending on your discipline....

Imagine the suits you buy and have to leave in the car for a few days until there is a chance to sneak it in the house because "there is no money" and he hates credit.... and you took it on credit.... utalipia wapi with full disclosures.... aaaish!

Remember, we are not saying that you do not disclose, with your statement, you have taken it a way new level..... Unless you are very insensitive, women always get to know when the guy is living beyond his means waaaaayyyy before you get married or think of living together... for a guy you are serious with, he will lie the first month of dating.... the second will be a "gotcha!!"

...Kwani the suits are all of the same colour...Ama we are colour blind...Asi!!!

@Wendz,
You forgot to tell Magigi this.Women are very secretive.....and the reason,as an old guide once told me,lies in the fact that while men see the broader picture (Car,properties,land,school fees,a rural retreat,medical care and Rhoda's bills),women see the finer details(Salon,dressing up,chamas,coughing children,your growing tummy,torn curtains,the neighbour's new cat and that look you gave the mboch last evening....Thank you!.You can keep your millions).

@ wendz,yeah suprisingly we listen to what those who have gone before us have to say....only that sometimes we don agree:)

Hmmmm the IPO? it went so well,the nice polished gent of the wazua tribe still jazzes my life. wacha nimtumie hiyo link ya Shompole