@bwenyenye - pole sana, but don't admire our situation. As I mentioned, ni sumu baridi! a dagger straight to the soul. It turns a quiet, reserved man into a marauding beast especially when they 'lift' and expose the mellons - kazi kwisha! Most men-like Gatonye have a weakness for that part - and am sure many will bear witness.

@Querry inakaa u r a dudette - pls spare us the torture. Most of us don't want to go beyond what we see, so it's a case of seeing, believing, but never partaking. Does that sound like a reasonable definition of torture?

aaaaaaaiiiih... the guys are not complaining... are they? they are the ones who encourage the ladies to dress that way coz of the attention the get..... prob is, the same men encouraging other women to dress scantly would hang themselves if they found THEIR women dressed the same in town....

By the way, why the double standards? Infact, when a dude meets this fine lady who was dressing well,not very scantly, but showing some bit of cleavage will quickly start complaining of her dressing once he "takes over" the territory. All over a sudden the blouse becomes "too low necked", the dress is "too tight", the skirt is "too short"... what changes?

Men are weaker when they see be it the mellons,palm trunks e.t.c but women are weaker on the imagination of how it may be when pale pale.

Bwana Mathenge, true true but "Kadonye" man eishh..
@Kadonye, no offense, just having fun with your user name. As for the provocatively dressed auditors, we kula na macho tu. It's good for your blood pressure.If you develop bad thoughts, please repent when you go to church on sunday..