thanks alot for all those responses that have grabbed the objectives and the relevance of the topic...this is happening all over like @ wairegi has said and i have already witnessed two similar cases as such it is not anything new....
@ guka, wendz etc i was wondering what if this happened to you...yaani your 20 year old daughters being offered marriage by some 80 years old rich nigerian or arab or a european etc...i would surely be interested to know how many nuts would end up being tightened by the time you are through....hehehehehe
If I cashed the cheque and the Fida fellows came calling claiming that this is an illegal marriage to an underage, wouldn't i be held on account of receiving a bribe so that i could legitimise the whole process being in an important position traditionally?????
...besides, the presence of a safe alone does not signify that there is money inside...