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Cool Jamaa
#11 Posted : Tuesday, November 09, 2010 3:03:40 PM
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@ Leona.
So how do I do that exactly? What would u do if you were in my shoes....
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leona
#12 Posted : Tuesday, November 09, 2010 3:15:33 PM
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@Cool jamaa
I have been in similar shoes...but am totally different now. In my negative cacuun..it just dawned on me one day,that i can't live like that forever. I stood up..dusted myself and moved on with my life. I buried my negative energy,de-linked myself from negative people and swore never to look back. Anyone can be what they choose to be in life. And btw,if you look deep inside yourself,you will find at least 10things to be grateful for everyday. I used to sit down with pen and paper..and not even think of one, but when i changed my way of looking at things,i now find hundreds of things to be grateful for...but i only write the top 10 everyday!smile

Walk into a bookshop and buy Joel Osteen's 'Become a better you' Or 'Your best life now'. It's a good starting point. Or give me your email address and i will lend you mine - as long as you promise to read the book and not give up on it too!smile
Nevermind what haters say, ignore them til they fade away - Just live your life
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mkonomtupu
#13 Posted : Tuesday, November 09, 2010 3:18:47 PM
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@Cool Jamaa, just from your post
1. I am a hard-worker.
2. I happen to be the best in my team.
3. I always wanted to go to university. I went back to school.
4. I tried business.
5. I believe that I am just as good as them.
6. My mother. She is the only person in the world that genuinely cares for me.
7. I'm 28years old.
8. I'm writting in this forum.(remember Kimani Maruge)
9. I'm cool Jamaa.
10. I'm willing to change.
you clearly need a motivation coach. Ever tried fire walk.
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McReggae
#14 Posted : Tuesday, November 09, 2010 3:19:35 PM
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Your name is already a motivation in itself, you call yourself cool jamaa, meaning there are aspects of your life you are proud of!!!!

....as Leona put it, never assume that all those smiling around you are having an easy ride in their live, life can be elephant my brother!!!!
..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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Cool Jamaa
#15 Posted : Tuesday, November 09, 2010 3:21:49 PM
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@leona

thanks, I think I'll head over there now and see what it's about. Im willing to try anything really.

My email address is cowardcountry@yahoo.com
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kizee1
#16 Posted : Tuesday, November 09, 2010 3:23:15 PM
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lets see
1. you have a job
2. you are hard working
3. you are back in school(i assume uni)
4. you have a mother that loves u and who you love dearly...
5. you seem quite well written/and spoken

mate u have alot going for you please count ur blessings as the song goes, as for women.....with all due respect to them but every radio show has a woman callin in asking for a man etc etc so........im sorry to say this but u need to MAN THE f*** UP!!! STOP BEING SO WHINY AND TAKE CONTROL OF UR LIFE
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Cool Jamaa
#17 Posted : Tuesday, November 09, 2010 3:26:47 PM
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@mkonomtupu ...never thought of it that way. So you guys mentioned psychiatrist & motivational coach. How do I get in touch with any of these guys that are private and affordable.... and I don't think my insurance would cover that.

Any websites to recommend or volunteers via e-mail... and sorry if I'm asking too many questions.
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Achiever
#18 Posted : Tuesday, November 09, 2010 3:29:02 PM
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look around you my brother, you will notice people with much bigger problems than yours,

or visit some hospitals, and see the sick.....some very ill...but can still afford to smile......

then take a look at your self...and maybe....just maybe you will learn to appreciate yourself a little.
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Cool Jamaa
#19 Posted : Tuesday, November 09, 2010 3:30:41 PM
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Kizee 1

I dont have a father figure in my life so I dont know how to man up or be a man. That explains part of the reason why Im downright scared of women also, Ive tried to change but Ive been this way for 16 years ...since i was a teenager. Being a man is all about making decisions, im very poor at that obviously and i'm socially awkward. How do I become a real man?
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kizee1
#20 Posted : Tuesday, November 09, 2010 3:33:51 PM
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Location: nairobi
first

do u agree that u have quite a lot going for u?
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