Indeed, why would you marry someone with whom you are not willing to share your all?

There are some occasions in which a man must tell half his secret, in order to conceal the rest; but there is seldom one in which a man should tell all.

Sky5,

Nowadays, relationships and/or marriage are too overrated. People are getting hitched (or prentend to live with other people) for all the selfish reasons that one can think of other than about love.

You mentioned about a will. That's exactly what am thinking of doing as prenups don't work in Kenya. All the stuff that I acquired before and during marriage will be reflected in the will...apende asipende.

There will be a clause in the will to form a charitable trust so that when I pass on, my kidogo wealth I can be sure of the fact that my wealth will benefit more deserving people in this world other than my significant other!

do you go into marriage thinking about divorce or till death do you part? whoever cannot trust his wife fully with everything married the WRONG person, period. whether you argue that case or not. Trust is a furu furu condition in marriage. the more you hide the more your relationship worsens. you may be too young to notice, but either your marriage will end in divorce or separation, or you will have too many issues to deal with.