oops wrote:Elder wrote:After all is said and done it is time guys admitted the truth. The truth is that there is no perfect woman. Each and every woman just with men will cheat on you at one point or another. Either once or severally. If you are stupid enough or unfortunate enough to find out then that is where the trouble starts.
i don't agree with you on this.
i know a number of pple who can not cheat (both men and women), and myself have never cheated and i don't think if i will after am married. sio wote please.
It is rather naive to declare that you know for a fact that someone cannot cheat on their partners. How do you know this? You with them 24/7 ama it is just because the way they behave when you interact with them?
The only person you can ever vouch for is yourself. In respect to yourself there are two things. One is that you cannot unequivocally state that you can never cheat on your partner until the day you are dying in old age and then you can only say 'I never cheated on my partner'. By that I mean circumstances change and what you can swear not to do today you may very well do tomorrow.
The second thing is that with all due respect such self-testimonies are inherently unreliable. From my experience, every man and every woman, married or not, has their price. Could be monetary, emotional or something else.
From your phrase 'i don't think if i will after am married.' it is clear you also realise that cheating is not entirely off the table.
He who can express in words the ardour of his love, has but little love to express. - Petrach, Son. (That men by various ways arrive at the same end. - Montaigne, The Essays of.)