woiii, sasa hao wa nyumbani ndio wabaya.

Ask the shopkeeper, charcoal man, fundi, houseboy,etc. Some indian men here have a lot to say about houseboys they employed in the past, huh!
Have you not heard of the story where an indian housewife somewhere in parklands or westlands tells mutiso the gardener,
'matiiso! matiiso! iko paanya kwa bedroom wewe iko kuja anglia!'
Only that there was no rat and mutiso came out much more relaxed after 30min from the same bedroom.

its simple &true - a good girl/ dude is a gift from God. Some good girls do go for these girls out and have honest fun, but some abuse it.
Look for strength of character.

Tricky balance. Chicks can get 'spoilt' or disinterested if they feel the guy is getting too clingy and suffocating their person. On the other hand, you have to agree on some basic rules of engagement as early in the relationship as possible so everyone knows what the boundaries are. Some people may not mind if their man or woman dirty dances with someone else while for other couples the same thing is unacceptable. There are still some good girls out there.

Would there be a post here whether or not women should allow boys night out? It is high time men stopped treating women as children/property or whatever.......

Sit down with your boo and discuss the acceptability of girls/boys night for BOTH of you.

It depends on where you are looking. I know a couple of decent, beautiful, bright, Nairobi girls who can cook well and stay at home.

What if the shaggs one grows horns on getting 'updated'?

Where can i find her? I presume you (sober)is a lady, are you saying these ladies are "hivi hivi", i am really beginning to think so, I've been hearing praise about Ugandan women, am sure Uganda will export a lot of brides to Kenya, next leave will be spent in Uganda, and i can kiss some of this nonsense goodbye. In the meantime i beg my brothers to FIGHT this problem, train our sisters not to get brainwashed by useless ideas. Girls night out failed where it came from!!!