Goodness, your rant made me accidentally discover the so called "greater man". On hearing how Timbalake put forward his issues on this clip
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NYp28ipYW0k&NR=1 (from 5:37secs), and knowing the person you choose to be with says a lot about you...
Maybe @Impunity your emotional 5 seconds should not exceed even by a millisecond, as @Wendz and destiny say, the best ones are yet to come...
Interesting to see how it all panned out later. Time can be very merciless or merciful thing, depending on where you stand.