@Wendz
Surely, when you tout marriage by trickery as being very funny, it comes out not very funny. Assume that was your daughter, would you take it kindly. I actually suspect the episode involved you.
Men who hood-wick ladies and turn them into their wives usually do not take the marriage convent seriously and usually lead in mpango wa kando arrangements even late in marriage. I know many who have second families because they want to prove themselves to be real men. Men! we are in the 21st century. Yah, men used to waylay girls at the watering hole, even grab them from the shamba and later deliver goats, but we are now in the twenty first century where human rights and bill of rights are being taken very seriously. Kenyan's, the world is changing.
Wendz, do not encourage men to use un orthodox means in getting girls. I know yours was just a story but some guys here are now trying to outdo you and implementing the same. What do you think of men who lace the girls drink, rapes her and when she conceives, says, come we get ‘married’? Will that man fail to repeat the same act in the future with another woman, maybe my sister, maybe my daughter. Jiz! I will buy a gun and one bullet only, just in case.
I can hear you but am out with this very beautiful girl, she allows my Boeing to land in her territory but while at it, I pierce the parachute with a pin so that she thinks I will land safely but a month later, she confirms she is pg. She ends up being my second wife. Are you still with me? Will God forgive me? Would you come smiling at me if it was your sister and agree to settle the matter with a few goats. Hallo.
Someone is trying to be malevolent here.
Go overdrive in purchasing the goods when there's blood on the streets, expecially if the blood is your own