poundfoolish wrote:@Ric dees
that Analogy hits home like a good home run....
So it would be beneficial to always work yourself up into several position 2's.... then wait..
@Poundfoolish
It happens in real life, not in the song, 'niliambiwa, na babu yangu, ukizubazubaa utakuta mwana si wako'. So never go for number two.
In actual sense, a majority of cases where you know how to lubricate, rom..., ca.... etc and you are the first to land deep into an airport, your plane remains the most thrilling aircraft than any other that may ever land there.
That is why the first mistake you make as a husband is compromising on fidelity. She might be the best mother of your kids but will never forget the first plane {although this is all in the head, cauze sex is 95% in the head}
The most ideal proposal should come naturally. It should not come to her as a bombshell.
In other words, identify her when she is young, teach her everything she will ever need to know, be the first plane to land, plant the ithege, after six months, have the goats counted and ask for the wedding if you are sure she captured the arrows or allow for one year to pass before asking for the wedding so that the future in-laws {they are always imps} will think finally you have made her pg and they won't cause a hell of scene in granting you their daughter less they are left with a bigger burden.
Now organize for a small wedding {let parents add cash if they want a big ceremony, walk her down the aisle and let the church do the rest but make sure you go on a two week honeymoon. That is what life is all about at that stage. Anything else will make the girl feel cheated for the rest of her life and can easily say, "he cheated me cauze I was young and inexperienced {Wendz style}, I have a right to revenge".
Done with purpose, you are sure of having a decent mother of your children.
Am yet to meet a lady who says, I will never want to walk down the aisle. I know they exist but they must be very rare. Honor starts with following procedures if you want to be honored upto the grave.
@Kandonye
Let things fall in place naturally, and proposing will be like a breeze.
Incidentally, don't tell yourself that she is so beautiful she cannot be yours. Others might have not dared ask her hand in marriage based on the same assumption and when you propose, it would be like a god send for her.
One last thing, a girl you've been boozing each week with at Soho will never make a good mother for your children unless in very rare cases. So, don't go proposing in the mid of the night when she is in a comatose. Look elsewhere for a wife.
Go overdrive in purchasing the goods when there's blood on the streets, expecially if the blood is your own