I was going to ask this yesterday but on reading @leona's response, i thought may be i was "emotional" and thought well, it could be coz am pretty passionate on this issue and decided to think it through..... and i have concluded may be what i need here is education.
@leona/rasilio/anyone else who has some info that i may not have.....
Please explain to me like a 4 year old how the gay are denied access to medical care in this country....
What i did yesterday, i decided to ask anyone who cared to respond these three questions and they all seemed to have the same no-answer unless there is someone here who has a contrary experience
I asked them if they have, recently, sought medical services and if on any form they were required to fill in on their medical history they came across questions such as follows
11.(a) Are you gay?
(b) Is there anyone in your family who has ever suffered from this condition?
(c) If any of the above answers is in the affirmative, please explain.
12. how did you contract your disease - especially the case of HIV
They also confirmed that none of the doctors they consulted asked them, directly or indirectly any of these questions. I also have never been asked these questions in all my many years in this good earth. So my humble question is, how are these guys discriminated against when they seek medical services?(am just ignorant)
This led me to some conclusions that either
1. there is a streak of HIV that targets only the gay people (and thats how doctors and other health professionals get to know how these guys contracted it hence deny them medical attention)
2. There may be a special condition (which i am not aware of) that affects this group of people and the only way it is contracted is through this practice
3. If none of the above is true, then they could be using this (to win sympathizers) to demand that we accept their practice as normal.
Well, i dont know, but may be this education will help me accept charles Wanjiku (formally Charles Mwangi) as my "daughter in law" and may be manage to help "her" adjust her straps on "her" wedding day knowing very well all those straps are supporting is some mandazi nylon papers stuffed with some old magazettis for a 'chesty' look

(ngai fafa... God forbid)