will get straight to the point, after all life stress, i have finally seen the light, i love babies and i want to raise 3 BUT since i have been so damn poor with ladies i dont think there is any who can withstand my sense of nonsense,i am looking for one to get kids with and then she packs and goes, does the constitution allow for such?

Hata Michael Jackson alifanya hivyo. Constitution or no constitution if you have the money you can make it happen. Lakini as one lady once said here si mapeni ya kulipa bills, serious money; think Karume, Chandaria, Kirubi like money.

@mlefu you do not need an airport to get kids. There are thousands of abandoned infants in children homes. Visit one and adopt, you will touch a life for the better. This thing of hiring airports is for perverts

@mlefu - I have good and bad news for you.

Bad news: There are very many ladies out there looking for a man to father a baby for them - but they get to keep the baby.

Good news: If you know any lady who is looking for a man to father her kids, then you can come to some sort of arrangement. Either you get kids together and you are grated visitation rights - this is not the best because you are family that lives apart no matter how you look at it. I gather that you don't want a lady as part of your life so this might not work out nicely unless meticulously planned. Second option is that you get two kids [or multiples of two] - one for you and one for her. But you have to take the first one otherwise chances of her seeing out her end of the deal will be lowered. The problem is, wont you feel guilty keeping a kid away from her brother or sister? Will they eventually meet? At what age? How do you explain to them how it all happened?

Another option: Rent a womb. It's big business in India! But you need someone to donate the 'egg'. This might be easier to find than a lady who will carry a baby for nine months, hand her/him to you after hours/days of labour and say goodbye. Tafuta donor, enough funds for round trip tickets for two to Idia and the procedure, pesa ya 'rent', then we will talk. In the mean time, visit the following links:

Rent a womb in India
Surrogacy In India

Having said that, I agree with @Intelligentsia. A kid needs both parents. A mother is extremely important in a kids life and you can never replace her no matter what.

boss, am looking at it from a point that my mum,sisters and aunties will be there but i might never be there for my "wife".
single parenthood....i think that's how almost everyone has been raised..a case where one parent is just but a statue.

i don't know how to control this thought!!!! damn me.