@ vinii....aaaaaai!

wewe....mjuaji si njung'e na njug'e si mjuaji....

ama kwani network ya thread inataka kuanza kukupotelea????

I thought this was a single's rally. Apparently there were so many married women in this nigger con-seminar. They were there for a miracle to happen to their husbands to change and be 'good' husbands...... Kama bibi alikwambia sunday ako na chama - sasa jua hata wewe uko kwa list ya miracles.

@Don care, happy is what they tell you they are, but do they tell you what they yearn for

Well, at 60 and you have your kids(and probably grand kids) and you are still single, it may not be too bad (we have many widows some who were left when very young - may be in their 30s or 40s and they seem ok - may be the kids keep them going) but when you are 50, single, no children, no even a possibility of getting one(without hitting the headlines of course...LOL) .....now thats when things become as huge as a herd of elephants....

Which makes me think, suppose your mom was a widow at the age of <40 (God forbid). would you have approved her marriage? Would you approve it now when you are an adult? At what age would you have accepted that she has her feelings and needs someone else to love her? Or are they supposed to remain single for ever? Have you heard of a woman who was widowed at a young age (but with children) getting married - I havent. May be this needs another thread.....

I agree..coz even though your jamaa has left you(4 whatever reason) and you have your kid(s),at least they will keep you company later on. That's why u will see some 35+ women rushing to have children with just any guy even though they know that the relationship cannot possibly last.