@Carygoh,
Ngai Mwathani!!......One comes smelling like a horse,next one smells like a "danky",another comes smelling like an overage kabichi,the next smells like a beberu!!!....Sasa hata utajua ulilewa na nini?

very sad.
women need to understand what we consider as important..
we hook up , you come to my house WHEN i invite you, if i let you meet my parents and all my friends it simply means its time(20 years +) for you to forget all career and such bullshit. we get kids, raise them with all that you have...believe me or not but i will be a perfect husband.
the other case where we meet, i invite you to start a family, you demand a *church wedding, then two years waiting for the right time to have at max 2 kids, meantime you enroll to any available learning institution to advance your career. then because you are earning this much we must live in such a neighbor-hood bla bla..trust me i will start sampling other "dinner" from that very moment.


the ratio to me is still 1:8 considering that single ladies when asked if they have another person living with them said this "yes he is my fiance,count him also. he is stuck in traffic or visiting his mum"

@carygoh, its all about 'playing your position', think about football, why play striker and you're a great defender? And vice versa. We all know what we are best at, women know men and men understand women and we engage life. Why should you (carygoh) recoil your pretty self into your job stocks and money when there is a man out there for you who you wont even look at. Why cheer the game safely alone(but in a crowd)from the stands/terraces/sidelines, when you are supposed to be in the field? Playing rough against much know, getting fouled here and there, defending here and the there, taking free kicks and winning and loosing with your team rather than alone (but in a crowd) up in the stands where no one will hurt you, love you, see you, foul you, or notice that you farted in bed. The crowds remember you, playmates too(kids, hubby, mother in law, extended family but no one remember who was in the crowd). Just a spectator to life coz you are too scared to play? Understand the rules and play baby! Don't wait till you're 60(like many tourist who come to pick anything at the coast or f2) to stop watching the game from the stands or worse on dstv

....it's unfortunate that tonight a lady will slip into bed alone hoping that a miracle promised by the Nigerian bloke will come to pass.....we have our own pastor Wahome of the Helicopter Church ( could't he get a fancier name) who promises anything from husbands, babies to even pick ups!!

@guka u are refering to the pamper or wat