@Ric D, Hapo umenena.
Today's girls will not give you a second look if you have nothing. If you are a college graduate ndio saa hii unaanza life, uko na first job lakini sio job poa, so you dont have a car, wear same shirt or suit every other day, live in some eastlands neighbourhood where gunshots ring very night Etc. Maze utatafuta kamshikaji vi crazy and you will just be given a wide berth. Fast forward a few years from that time and you have found yourself a good job, a nice car (may be on loan), have digs in a quiet neighbourhood, dress Ok Etc and the same chicks now meet you with a wide smile and begin sending you enough signals you could scramble an egg with!!
As 50 cent says, the game just wasn't this way a few years back
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...