Now this was a response in relation to http://www.oyungapala.co...se-for-kenyan-polygamy/

And this was from a lady.......

# Barbara says:
August 9th, 2010 at 10:30 am

I totally agree with your sentiments in this issue. I mean its a high time the society learn to embrace this harsh reality and deal with it. It is more comforting to know the number of children your husband has in his other marriages than getting a rude shock when he passes on and more than 5 children with 3 other women come claiming that he was their dad/ husband too. Lets face it any man who is comfortable enough will always look for other women to show off his money and spend on them. Thats a fact so the sooner we accept it the better for all of us, its more relaxing to know where your husband is than to think of him prostituting around with random women. I at times think Islam is best at this because it accepted this kind of life and there is hardly any divorce cases around them unless otherwise. other religion should embrace the same. Lets not be hyprocrites. These things happen and they are getting worse by day. so be it! lets go polygamy way and live happily ever after…. I love you Pala for being real……………..

That was HER opinion not mine. What's yours?

Poligamy is good. As long as one has the resources to support the big family it is OK. However, men should be careful not to find yourself in a kirima situation when on your sunset years.

the fact of the matter is polygamy is happening, that i agree,but the thought of sharing my man knowingly will make me go "nuts"(am that selfish).i will stick, to what i don't know wont hurt me and

wendz i would rather know early,i start planning mapema ,but my point is there is no way i can be in marriage where we are more than one wife.hiyo najipa shugli mapema

Then I suppose women should also be allowed more than one husband.